Have you ever been accused of being a flake? Me too! It was painful. Why? Because it came from a man I was in love with, even though our marriage was on the rocks. He was scared, and even though he admitted later, “I no longer think you are a flake,” those words somehow crept into my subconscious (coming from someone I loved and trusted,) challenging me to prove to anyone who doubted me that I was ok. So my naysayers had moved into my subconscious without me even knowing!

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