Connect with Your Higher Self

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Every day, people are saturated with television and radio commercials, as well as social media ads that encourage moving up in the world: reaching a more influential social status, securing a better paying job or buying a bigger house or car. However, an often-neglected area of self-improvement and self-discovery is much more personal. The spiritual part of people must be nurtured, too. Elevating one’s soul can be transformational.

But what is your Higher Self and how can you get there? To connect to Higher Self, you need to open your heart and embrace new possibilities. Developing a Higher Self connection is the one key that will unlock everything else. This part of you is different from lower self that provides intuition yet is tied to your ego/desires. Your lower self is reactive; your Higher Self is proactive. It is ahead of the curve; your lower self is reactive to the curve.

Connecting to Higher Self is a game changer. How can you get there? Higher Self meditation is a practice to aid you to connect. Eventually you will apply this understanding to all you know, and it will greatly expand your loving heart. In short, it will keep you honest—with yourself and with others. When you connect with your Higher Self, you will gain the keys to waking up in 5D. For example, there may be a time when you want to do one thing but are not sure that it’s right. When you choose to check in with your Higher Self, you are given information that may help you choose a different direction, resulting in having a more fifth-dimensional experience.

Of course, being in fifth dimension is a frequency choice. It’s also about using what’s available to assist you when you fall out of the higher frequencies. This means your movement to fifth dimension isn’t a direct arrival. Being there doesn’t guarantee you’ll stay there. Certainly once you’ve been there it becomes easier and easier to reach. If you do move back into third dimension, it’s a movement that will keep oscillating until you can hold the higher frequency all the time.

If you are still wondering what is Higher Self, be confident that as a society, we are collectively being nudged to find a new and different version of ourselves with new and different pathways to solve what is in front of us. You can and must validate it yourself, by developing your own connection. Many times people think they are receiving good Higher Self information, but they just don’t trust it. Your first communication might be in body confirmations. The traditional one (but not the only one) that almost everyone gets is goose bumps or goose flesh. It’s a way for your body to tell you that you are in resonance with the divine version of you, your Higher Self.

Self-reflection, listening to your heart and letting it lead the way, remembering that you are unique, trusting yourself and practicing heart-centered higher self meditation are wonderful ways to get started on this transformational journey. Take the first step and learn more by contacting trusted and respected spiritualist Maureen St. Germain and her Mystery School team.

When studied carefully, many religions reveal common threads. Likewise, some meditations use similar practices. However, there is a profound difference between transcendental meditation and the MerKaBa meditation. Both offer paths to greater peace and less anxiety. The key is understanding some of their significant features that distinguish them from each other.

Transcendental meditation has its roots in the Indian Vedic tradition, closely related to Hinduism. “TM,” as it is often called, is based on silent, repeated mantras—many of which became more well known in the 1960s, when a yoga guru founded and popularized the approach.

MerKaBa meditation, on the other hand, originated from a combination of methods chosen from Hindu, Egyptian, Hebrew, Tibetan, and other traditions for the original 17-Breath meditation. The term ‘merKaBa’ stems from the Hebrew term which means ‘chariot to ride in’ and relates to the throne-chariot of God in prophetic visions. A likeness of a man drives the chariot.

The MerKaBa is a Body of Light or Light Body, activated from a geometric field that exists around the body. Everyone has this field around them, as do planets, solar systems, and other living entities. This means learning it is a remembering experience for humans. Once they have remembered the MerKaBa, they can choose to activate it daily until it becomes permanent. Undoubtedly, it will.

This body of light is fifth-dimensional, which can be remembered and activated. It is not necessary to acquire it, since it is already there. It is from the future of a more advanced version of humanity. This, combined with the Christ Consciousness Grid around the earth, ensures Ascension.

MerKaBa meditation technique uses 17 distinct breaths. Accompanying each of the 17 breaths are mudras, or meditative hand gestures, which serve distinct purposes, such as creating balance with oneself and within oneself. MerKaBa meditation is guided and can be learned by anyone with practice. Certain moments during the practice, for example at breath 14, are ideal spots in which to find one’s Higher Self. Each step of the meditation brings people closer and closer to finding the best possible version of themselves, leaving the three-dimensional world and experiencing the 5th dimension to start.

One of the many exciting benefits of MerKaBa meditation is traveling with the MerKaBa. This does not mean moving from one planet to another, but much more. It is moving within a global energy field that does not belong to time and space but works as a kind of geometric reference for outer manifestation. Once understood, it allows complete freedom to move about in consciousness.

This means the MerKaBa puts individuals perfectly in touch with the third-dimensional and fifth-dimensional reality in such a way that they always know what they need to know when they need to know it. Moreover, it supports them to manifest easily.

World-respected teacher, author and spiritual consultant Maureen St. Germain has written books, traveled the world and coached countless people in MerKaBa meditation and its benefits. Contact the St. Germain Mystery School to learn more about how to get started.

A Blow to the Heart: Ascension Rocket Fuel for the Higher Self

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The heart is the translator for Higher Self information. The more open your heart is, the clearer the incoming information will be. It is in your best interest to stay open and work through blows to the heart so that you can advance in your understanding of what your Higher Self has in store for you.

Love is the fuel. Your Higher Self needs your open heart’s love (fuel) to understand and interpret the information coming in through the MerKaBa and Higher Self. You are capable of higher and higher expressions of unconditional love. Rocket fuel contains higher octane to produce jet propulsion, just as your love quotient increases your ability to move and understand the third-dimension reality we live in.

Love is the basis for the fifth-dimension reality that is our goal. Give yourself the blessing of opening your heart every chance you get. What you desire is a level of unconditional love that enables clear communication from the fifth-dimension Higher Self.

Think about this analogy: When you are learning a foreign language, you have the opportunity to make a big leap by visiting the country that speaks your new language. When you take a blow to the heart, you achieve a similar leap. Your heart breaks off a layer of armor and you get to choose to remain exposed and more loving or close down and become hard-hearted. The choice is yours.

You may not understand this at first, but it has become abundantly clear to me that the opening of the heart is the key. Nothing will give you what you desire more than an open heart. The keys to the kingdom for all of us are hidden within a blow to the heart, which ultimately helps us understand information coming through the MerKaBa.

Fortunately, the blows to the heart get easier and easier. The time I had the wrong key to a friend’s apartment in the Bronx after a morning jog in early October was easier to accept than I’d like to admit. I was due in Manhattan in two hours, I hadn’t showered or brushed my hair or teeth, I was wearing a T-shirt and shorts with a hole in them, and the key didn’t work. Imagine my initial response—“I just will not go!”—to finally begging for $2 from a stranger to get a one-way subway fare and going in my worn workout clothes. If you’ve ever been in class with me, you know I take my professional appearance seriously, so it was a very big deal for me to go to teach a class this way.

When I returned to my friend’s apartment later that night, he was cross with me. At first I thought it was because my returning for my luggage meant he’d had to cancel his plans for an evening of dancing. Then when I checked in with my Higher Self I was reminded, “He is a nice man and it bothered him a lot that he’d let me down this way.” The upshot was that after I had dealt with my own feelings, I had to deal with his feelings of failure for giving me the wrong key. The knowledge that it had been a blow to the heart made it possible for me to remain calm and joyous, and to tell myself that it was not at all about inconsiderate behavior, but a chance to open my heart even more.

I hope you’ll remember my tale and laugh about me when your Higher Self informs you that the reason for someone else’s awful behavior is a blow to the heart. This laughter will help you open your heart, and believe me, you will need that little laugh to help you get through it.

Working with the Hathors

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The Hathors are interdimensional galactic beings already anchored in this dimension by virtue of their fifth-dimensional presence on Venus. It is not just one whole race; they are a species. These beings are the most intelligent, most advanced race of enlightened beings in our solar system, more advanced than the dolphins. They represent only peace and love, and they communicate through singing or toning, not spoken words.

Not all Egyptians could see the Hathors, but the artists who depicted the species were able to experience them and create the beautiful sculptures we still see today. Many were defaced by early Christians, so finding an undamaged statue is a challenge.

Tom Kenyon and Virginia Essene have written extensively about the Hathors in their book The Hathor Material.

The Hathors work with the ankh, the hieroglyphic symbol of life, using uninterrupted circular breathing and toning. Three separate but continuous tones can take someone directly through Ascension. Toning with the Hathors and others worldwide has given us an enormous body of knowledge. They have worked through me giving initiations and assisting others with their Hathor communication. They are willing and able to assist you with your heart opening, but remember, we are in a free-will zone, so it is up to you to ask for their help. Expecting them to help you will not bring their help; you must seek it!

Figure 2.1. The ancient Egyptian goddess Hathor, Venusian goddess of

unconditional love, crossed boundaries between worlds. It is widely believed

that Sanat Kumara, Ancient of Days who came to Earth to help bring Earth out

of her darkest hour, invited the Hathors, who also resided on Venus. (CC BY-SA)

In toning, we find that individuals experience more than one voice coming through their vocal cords. There are often additional sounds similar to what can be heard in

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recordings of Tibetan monks performing overtone singing. Joining the Hathors in toning is quite the experience, as you will learn.

One place you can hear their toning is on my MerKaBa II CD. It was recorded with Hathor toning in the background, to elevate your MerKaBa experience and support you in opening your heart to the level of the Hathors.

When you are feeling particularly unloving, as most of us do from time to time, simply ask these beings to send their “electronic presence” to overshadow you. For example, when you must deal with someone toward whom you do not feel loving, the Hathors can help you. Their mastery will provide you with the perfect template of unconditional love.

What is MerKaBa Stone?

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Many adults have a negative recollection of their first encounter with the subject of geometry in school. Part of the reason is that geometry is taught as theory, without any practical application to real life. However, by going beyond their present understanding—deep into the symbolism of numbers—individuals can uncover the hidden codes of life. In doing so, they will learn to apply sacred geometry to their manifestation work.

Sacred geometry holds the key to creation in matter. When people carefully examine geometry, they suddenly see that angles and shares are replicated throughout nature and the Universe. It’s then, that they have truly turned geometry into something sacred. Within this concept of sacred geometry people can understand the significance of the MerKaBa stone.

The MerKaBa stone meaning is powerful. Many people say it looks like a three-dimensional version of the Biblical star of David, rooted in Judaism. Essentially, it is a star tetrahedron (a solid triangular pyramid with four triangular faces) with geometric shapes spinning in opposite planes. A star-tetrahedron, then, is two tetrahedrons nested midway to produce a six-pointed three-dimensional figure. The MerKaBa star/stone meaning embodies balance and unity. It can help balance energy fields, which makes it the perfect accompaniment for MerKaBa guided meditations.

MerKaBa stone meaning can be analyzed further by examining the importance of each side of the shape. The top of the tetrahedron, for example, represents the masculine force; the lower side represents the feminine force. They are opposing forces: dark/light, physical/spiritual. They spin in opposing directions but et they come together harmoniously through meditation. Once this balance is achieved, an individual can use this energy, or light, to enter a higher consciousness apart from three-dimensional reality.

Some people ask: What stone should a Merkaba be? There is no correct answer. Depending on your meditation intentions, these spiritual tools range from obsidian to rose quartz and tiger’s eye.

Regardless of the type of stone, MerKaBa meditations link 17 breaths and mudras to specific points of the tetrahedron. For example, the number six is directly related to the six external points of the star-tetrahedron, or Divine Light Body. There are actually eight points of the MerKaBa as individuals work their way around the star-tetrahedrons, but two reside in the axis points and get cleared each time they pulse. It is possible to repeat the same mudras and breaths up to eight, but those numbered one through six are all that is necessary.

Breath 15 is the activation of the star-tetrahedrons (two nested tetrahedrons) around individuals that move in opposite directions at equal speed. Remember, these three star-tetrahedrons are part of the bigger system that is put in place in the earlier parts of the meditation. How much does the speed increase? The rotation automatically jumps to one-third the speed of light. People’s intention to “start the motor” increases the speed to one-third of light speed. Breath 17 activates the relationship to nine-tenths the speed of light.

Learn more about how the power of sacred geometry and MerKaBa stones can be a wonderful spiritual component of your next guided meditation with the help of Maureen St. Germain’s Mystery School.

MerKaBa Crystal Uses

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Crystals have long been associated with “magical” powers. From films to fairytales, they held visions of the future or shone as points of light on the crown of royalty. However, in the spiritual world, these harbingers of light have more profound properties. The MerKaBa crystal is an ideal example.

First, it’s important to note that MerKaBa is synonymous with the body of light that surrounds people’s bodies. This crystalline shield holds enormous energy, accessed through meditation. Traveling with the MerKaBa does not mean moving from one planet to another, but much more. It is moving within a global energy field that does not belong to time and space but works as a kind of geometric reference for outer manifestation. Once understood, it allows complete freedom to move about in consciousness.

This means the MerKaBa puts you perfectly in touch with the third-dimensional and fifth-dimensional reality in such a way that you always know what you need to know when you need to know it. And it supports you to manifest easily.

Spiritual facilitator, teacher and best-selling author Maureen St. Germain has traveled the world exploring, studying and speaking on the subject of how to use MerKaBa crystal to enhance and elevate meditation experiences. These stones are typically tetrahedrons—the geometric symbol of creation and unity (sometimes call the flower of life).

Geometry is often difficult to understand because it is rarely connected to anything personal in people’s lives. To better imagine these symbols, begin by extending a line from the edges of each of the tetrahedrons into the air. The easiest way to see this is to tape skewer sticks to the edge of a cardboard MerKaBa and then spin it—imagining that there is one spinning around you to the right (emotional body star-tetrahedron) and one to the left (mental body star-tetrahedron) around a stationary one. It produced cones that appear to be slightly off-center. Upon closer examination you will see that they are secondary rotational fields created from the edge of the star-tetrahedron field. A car’s four-cylinder engine will create a secondary counter-rotating field within the engine’s cradle, called the engine’s harmonics. Anyone who has worked on an older car uses a strobe timing light to balance this and keep it in harmonic resonance. Likewise, the MerKaBa’s secondary field is creating harmonic resonance that stabilizes and harmonizes everything within it.

The meaning of MerKaBa crystal stems from its representation of one’s inner flame or light of life. This association with the Divine can help people gain greater awareness.

MerKaBa crystal healing has been used to create greater focus, establish boundaries around a meditation space, release fear that blocks energy and balance chakras. Their power as spiritual tools during meditation are embraced by many participants. Different crystals are used for different purposes. For example, black tourmaline and clear quartz are energy cleansers, and crown chakra crystals promote balance. Other crystals, such as ruby, topaz and sapphire, are used to augment meditations, as well.

Contact Maureen St. Germain and her professional team to learn more about how crystals can be an ideal accompaniment to your guided meditations.

Healing Old Wounds and Facing Our Fears

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For some, fears rule their thoughts and ultimately their lives. We can learn how to use our fears, old habits, old thoughts and old ideas and allow them all to become a thing of the past, as we begin our ascension work. In Maureen’s latest book, Mastering Your 5D Self, she explains how we need to approach our memories and face those fears that live in the back of our minds during our lifetimes. “As you approach your memories, you are going to be facing many opportunities to ‘right the wrongs.’ You can decide, as you review experiences, that it doesn’t matter, and your memories will soften. If you use your mind to let your opinion, be amplified by your emotional reaction and judgement that someone or something is to be punished, you will stay in the third dimension.” pg 68 Mastering Your 5D Self

Learning to live and breathe in 5D is the basis for Maureen’s teaching. Letting go of our of the fears and habits that “tie” us down, is the key to our ascension. “You can change the matrix of how you experienced an event or events.” Pg 68 Mastering Your 5D Self We can change all our painful memories and choose to heal them by learning to merge timelines.

“Remembering past traumas begins a certain way. There are node points in time and space that allow you to access information (tunnel down) that you have either forgotten or been blank-slated (to not remember). A node point is a point on a time line that is parallel or close to another time line. The node point can allow for them to merge permanently or partially. You may have a trigger occur, which is usually in that same physical location, with or without a similar situation, and the mind is able to tunnel back to the original event.” Using your understanding of node points, you may clear out old wounds by revisiting a past wound and then remaking it into a new version of the past.” Pg 69 Mastering Your 5D Self

As humanity awakens, we will be able to look at these points in time, change them for the better and begin to heal from our past wounds. “Humanity is about to forget about all the pain and suffering we have been through. We are merging multiple time lines and this is part of the great forgetting. The merging of time lines is part of a greater action to heal and transform experiences. Humanity has suffered over its suffering. Man’s inhumanity to man has caused huge suffering that is not tolerated nor likely to be created again. This inhumanity was the result of certain forces influencing humans to choose darkness over light. That era has ended and will not be revisited. Humans have used memory to revisit their pain and suffering. They did it to ensure they would not do it again. Unfortunately, there were those (dark forces) who thrived on negative loosh.” pg 69 Mastering Your 5D Self

Tame the Monkey Mind with Guided Meditations

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In the 21st century, it seems that multi-tasking is a necessity. With the demands of work, home, school, family and community, doing more than one thing at any given time enables people to get more done. Multi-taskers are applauded. But at what price? After a while, this frenetic pace can be exhausting and detrimental to people’s emotional and mental well-being. Moreover, the harried schedule can by physically fatiguing. Distracted, perpetually on the go and frazzled, people pay the price.

Buddhists have long called this unsettled and restless state the “monkey mind.” Coined centuries ago, the term, of course, did not account for the overwhelming distractions that would increase exponentially in modern society. From cell phones to computers, incessant texts, omnichannel platforms and instant messaging, the digital age has ushered in even more ‘chatter’ in people’s minds. In fact, the problem is so common that a recent Forbes Magazine article explored its prevalence in modern society and how it is causing many people to become unnecessarily self-absorbed.

How can people tame this monkey mind? Meditations that are guided are a soothing option.

With gentle coaching through audio, video or live sessions, these daily practices can quiet the frazzled and fragmented parts of your being and open your heart to a calmer, more peaceful self. Spiritual facilitator Maureen St. Germain has composed and voiced dozens of these guided meditations on a multitude of topics that inspire people to live their best lives.

These sessions include: Reality Remix, which helps practitioners release themselves from regret and experience true bliss; Golden Bowl, which enables people to connect to their sixth sense. The newly recreated Open Your Heart to Love Countdown conquers fear and worry by lifting people’s spirits and helping them feel enriched by the presence of their Higher Self. Without even trying, students of this practice have noticed more smoothness in their everyday life, along with sincere kindness, without even trying to be a better person. They have rooted out what are known as the five ‘poisons’ to the soul: anger, greed, lust, envy, jealousy, pride and ignorance. In the process, they are able to control their scattered thoughts and deeply focus beyond what they have ever experienced beforehand.

Along these lines, learning the scientifically geared, logical MerKaBa meditation takes four focused hours in a MerKaBa workshop. Practicing it takes no more than five minutes daily. This is not a big investment for the results that will be achieved: being connected with fifth-dimensional reality and enjoying it for a lifetime.

The next time your brain is leaping wildly from one thought to another, like a monkey swinging through the trees, seek out guided meditations from the professionally trained team at Maureen St. Germain Mystery School to ground your thoughts and achieve a bit of heaven on earth.

What is the Difference between Transcendental Meditation and the MerKaBa Meditation?

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When studied carefully, many religions reveal common threads. Likewise, some meditations use similar practices. However, there is a profound difference between transcendental meditation and the MerKaBa meditation. The key is understanding some of their significant features that distinguish them from each other.

Transcendental meditation has its roots in the Indian Vedic tradition, closely related to Hinduism. “TM,” as it is often called, is based on silent, repeated mantras—many of which became more well known in the 1960s, when a yoga guru founded and popularized the approach.

MerKaBa meditation, on the other hand, originated from a combination of methods chosen from Hindu, Egyptian, Hebrew, Tibetan, and other traditions for the original 17-Breath meditation. The term ‘MerKaBa’ stems from the Hebrew term which means ‘chariot to ride in’ and relates to the throne-chariot of God in prophetic visions. A likeness of a man drives the chariot.

The MerKaBa is a Body of Light or Light Body, activated from a geometric field that exists around the body. Everyone has this field around them, as do planets, solar systems, and other living entities. This means learning it is a remembering experience for humans. Once they have remembered the MerKaBa, they can choose to activate it daily until it becomes permanent. Undoubtedly, it will.

This body of light is fifth-dimensional, which can be remembered and activated. It is not necessary to acquire it, since it is already there. It is from the future of a more advanced version of humanity. This, combined with the Christ Consciousness Grid around the earth, ensures Ascension.

MerKaBa meditation technique uses 17 distinct breaths. Accompanying each of the 17 breaths are mudras, or meditative hand gestures, which serve distinct purposes, such as creating balance with oneself and within oneself. MerKaBa meditation is guided and can be learned by anyone with practice. Certain moments during the practice, for example at breath 14, are ideal spots in which to find one’s Higher Self. Each step of the meditation brings people closer and closer to finding the best possible version of themselves, leaving the three-dimensional world and experiencing the 5th dimension to start.

One of the many exciting benefits of MerKaBa meditation is traveling with the MerKaBa. This does not mean moving from one planet to another, but much more. It is moving within a global energy field that does not belong to time and space but works as a kind of geometric reference for outer manifestation. Once understood, it allows complete freedom to move about in consciousness.

This means the MerKaBa puts individuals perfectly in touch with the third-dimensional and fifth-dimensional reality in such a way that they always know what they need to know when they need to know it. Moreover, it supports them to manifest easily.

World-respected teacher, author and spiritual consultant Maureen St. Germain has written books, traveled the world and coached countless people in MerKaBa meditation and its benefits. Contact the St. Germain Mystery School to learn more about how to get started.

The Genie first shows itself – Part 2

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Amazingly, she provided me with details on how to submit a proposal, which was due in three weeks, and added, “If you submit it for this year, I will speak in favor of it, because I sit on the committee!” She was the one person who would be strongly in favor of this sort of workshop on the committee. She believed there was not enough self-development coursework and she felt the Genie workshop would address that!

She was the exact person to help me and presented herself to me with little or no effort on my part. Coincidence? I think not, we almost didn’t meet! The only thing I did was run my movie over and over in my head and then respond to the opportunity to meet with the perfect person to aid me in my goal.

Of course, I had to do my part. I had to prepare an outline to submit to the committee, which had to be substantial enough to get to the committee review in the first place!

This accomplishment was so huge for me that the first year I was almost in a daze that I actually pulled it off! The second year was the test of my true mettle; for I could see clearly what I had accomplished and wondered if I could do it again. Certainly if it was a coincidence, the odds were against me! If I could do it again, it proved the Genie System worked. It did.

During this cycle of four years, while working at the non-profit organization, I was running a lot of movies. I wanted to have my bills paid off. I wanted to be a great mom and parent. I wanted to do an awesome job at my day job. I wanted to succeed at the seminar business I was starting. I wanted lots of things.

I began offering tours to Egypt during this period. When I was in Egypt, the people called me Mrs. Magic, because many magical things happened while I was there with my groups.

When everyone else was discontinuing trips to Egypt, I was bringing people. I found that when I worked with this magical formula, I was much more plugged into life and how things work than I could ever have imagined. The Genie material will really help you gain this mastery, but more importantly, it will help you define and create your heart’s desire, just like magic.

My life is far from perfect. I have many challenges every day. Sometimes I forget to make a movie. Sometimes I stew over the things I don’t want. I have found that an attitude of gratitude disperses resistance, and that what I dwell on has a way of returning again and again.

I have learned that I can “Be a Genie,” and you can be too. I am so grateful to the participants of my workshops, to my editor and publisher and all my supporters for the opportunity to share what I have learned and discovered. I know that if you learn and apply the information contained in this book, you will “Be a Genie.”

What are Internal entities?

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Internal entities are energies or entities that you have co-created with God. In the classification below, they are labeled personal entities. These were usually created by you when you were younger and closer to God and still remembered how to do this. Sometimes, these entities are created in times of intense emotion where you were not feeling safe. They are your creation and it is up to you to evolve them in order for anything to change. Internal entities cannot be sent home to God, as you ARE God to them since you co-created them with God. In addition, internal entities are beneficent and although immature, are attempting to help you. They were created by you in all types of stressful situations to help you operate safely.

When people (usually during childhood) are faced with a difficult situation, they create a personal entity to form a pattern that ensures safety. For example, let’s say one of your parents was an alcoholic with huge anger issues. You, as a child, are just learning to express emotions. Children don’t come equipped to handle emotions. In a normal family, when a child has an outburst the healthy parent will respond with something like, “Johnny, we will have to go sit in the car if you insist on wailing like this in the store.” And then the parent follows through calmly moving to the car and waiting in the car with the child if necessary.

In a less functional family, when the parent verbally raises his voice, the child yells back. Then the parent escalates, so then the child escalates, and thus the power struggle begins. Next escalation, the adult usually turns to abusive language or behavior. It is at that moment the child moves into the fight or flight response and creates a pattern that works to keep the parent from escalating. This is particularly evident in some children who are raised by dysfunctional caregivers and never learn “normal” responses to difficult situations. As adults, they find they still react in the same child-like ways as their “default” pattern. This is because the pattern is a real entity that they have created when they were a child, hence its immature expression.

Even “normal” adults have them

Even mature, normal adults have these patterns from childhood because the child-mind doesn’t understand the real meaning of a situation. For example, a parent who unintentionally gives the impression that boys get better stuff than girls may cause a female to create a childhood entity that will make sure she gets more of the “good stuff” that she sees the boys in her family get. This is fine except that the programming she creates is probably that of an angry ten-year-old, and at age 30, it interferes with the productive relationships in her life. This is why the process of Quantum Matrix Healing, found in the book Reweaving the Fabric of Your Reality and taught by Maureen St. Germain, is so very powerful. The process allows for the maturing of the entities developed in childhood, which then helps people be their best self.